There is an old saying which fits here - my wife says it to me a lot - ‘strong opinions, loosely held’ - while I can’t quote that (because I don’t know who said it) it just about sums up the idea I am getting at here. Be willing to accept the change that is inevitably coming your way because you’ve been training for it, whether you know it or not. Sure, it will be surprising and uncomfortable when it arrives but you will be prepared to face it because of your past learnings and instincts that you’ve trained in. In other words, when you get the fish on-line, reel it in but don’t be defeated if you can’t catch the thing - re-bait your hook and cast back out - there are a lot of fish in the sea. Sea what I did there?
I’ve been on an existential mission to find my ground floor lately. Lost it somewhere along the pathway of life recently and it’s been a beast of a trail run, so to speak. Ireland came to the rescue and somehow surfaced a life-lesson through nostalgia I can’t yet place but I found my answer on that hill in the middle of nowhere and it was delivered to me by Santiago, The Old Man. Here it is (and I hope it lands in an optimistic way for you, as it is intended): become proven wrong and when you are, realize that the best strengths are built from trial and error, which makes you lucky if you get up and try again.
Slainte,
M4